Love which comes with different emotions and feelings is something we all have felt in our own lives. And to define love, one has to naturally establish love to love self, to share that love with others. As parents love their children like nothing else matter which is natural and it is a same principle of nature that love has to be established without the help of thoughts but through vibes of feelings. By doing things what we do every day and by making it an unconditional way to do those things and by loving it and by letting love get establish in one in such a way that that one has never felt love that way before. When one establishes the love of natural self in self through the love it received from various sources of life then it also gains the concept of how thought merges and it kills the love. Thoughts are by far our worst foe if we are not able to handle it in such a way to see the creation of any thought and the intention behind it.
Since thoughts usually kills the unconditional love that we have for self and others. In order to keep the love of self alive one must be able to control thoughts that occur randomly or intentionally in one’s mind at any given time. So how do we control thoughts that occur in all of us are is to say no to thoughts that disturb one’s peace of mind. Just like saying no to foods and other choices we face in life and in the same way we have to say no to unwanted thoughts that keep reoccurring if we don’t ask it to stop. It is a start and also one must believe that one can achieve if one is determined. After being able to control thought then one gets introduced to self, the self which is quite different then what one may think of self by self or others.
Separating me from self is separating doer and observer in self. Whatever we may do in life at the end of the night do we ask our intention behind any of our actions that we conduct? Separating ones action with the point of view of both doer and observer in self or judging self with the action of self is separating doer and observer in self. When we are able to separate doer and observer in every action of ours then we know how to separate me from the self.
Me am usually selfish and bounded to outside World and affairs where as self is more of inside of what and why we feel about different things in life. Feelings are the decider in whatever that we may do in life and feeling is all dependent upon other senses such as hearing, seeing and so on. When information receives from observation through other senses then only feeling decides what to do and we act as per the feeling we have. The feeling finally creates emotion which is our power in life to do anything that we want.
Controlling thought also makes one’s heartfelt feelings which make thoughts as per the feeling it rises and act as per it. When outside affects ends in one on how one act and reacts then thoughts also disappears away. Thoughts are all based on how others will think and act as per the way one lives his/her life. When we understand that everyone is similar and very much same when it comes to suffering as well as happiness in life. So no one is different than one another and everyone goes through similar situations and acts and reacts as per the situations that surround them at that particular period of time. Then why worry or think too much what others may say or do when we know we all act and react similarly as one another then when we know we are all similar. Knowing that all are just like self and self is like any other then it would be easy to do things in life to help identify self. After separating doer and observer in self then the main objective of life is to understand self by separating the doer and observer in self. Judging owns action by self and deciding based on the self judgments by dividing self into doer and observer. When the division is done then one can go as far as source to know what are doer and an observer as well. It then all comes down to making doer and observer as one and living the life as per thought raised by self. Self can be one or as much as all because basically all is just the multiplication of the one as source. Such that people do different unique things in life and it gets followed and modified by others as time goes but at the end when we look back the source is what makes a difference.
So when one knows and feels how everything is related to thought and without using the right sense sometimes thoughts takes us on a trip of happiness and sadness we call it life. Being able to choose thoughts by saying no to unwanted thoughts helps one to separate me from self and live a life as fulfilling and defining how one should live and approach life. When basically following what the heart says and doing as per rather than worry too much with unwanted thoughts needs to be balanced to be able to separate me from the self. Real fun of life starts after one is able to separate me from self and all others seem and feel like one of the self.
